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As a bride or groom, your Wedding Guest List may be easy to compile, or may be your worst nightmare.  This is the first time you will be combining both of your families for multiple events, and everyone has their own opinion on what is appropriate or inappropriate.  Trimming the guest list may turn into a heated debate, yet this blog (since you cannot be with me 24/7) will fast track you to realistic solutions which work best for you!  Your guest list WILL dictate how much you spend and your ceremony and reception location.  If you invite 150 couples, this may easily translate into 300 guests.

The Ultimate Guest List.  A magical number of family and friends which fits the size and style of your ceremony and reception sites, while staying within your wedding budget.

Invite Your Inner Circle of Family and Friends to Reduce Expenses.  Your wedding guest list should be your closest, most intimate friends and family members.   Focus on people who matter to you most.  Who was your priority to announce personally you just got engaged?  Although you may have an enormous family and circle of friends, it is important to trim the size of your wedding guest list to reduce expenses.  Trimming your wedding guest list is the number one way to save money!  If you haven’t seen or talked to them in a few years, they may be the easiest to cut first.

Make an Extensive List.  Ask your parents, your fiancé, and his parents to compile a wedding guest list including everyone they would imagine inviting.  Have them include and list their people in categories so it is easier when you are making table arrangements (i.e., wedding party, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, family, friends, neighbors, bosses, co-workers, business acquaintances, college friends, high school friends, and distant relatives).  Make sure everyone knows this is the “Fantasy Wish List”, and cuts will need to be made to stay within your budget.

Be Respectful.  Count on one thing when deciding on your wedding guest list, disagreement.  Everyone will have an opinion about your wedding, and especially about who should be invited.  When you get your red pen to trim your list, make sure you are respectful to your fiancé, your parents, and his parents.

Who is Paying, Divide Equally, and Apply Rules Fairly.  If you are running into conflicts when trimming your list, consider who will be paying the bill.  Budgeting for the wedding is something you must discuss at the beginning of your wedding planning.  If your parents are paying for most of the wedding, they will obviously have more control of your guest list.  Try to divide the guest list evenly.  Make across-the-board, and clear-cut decisions on who to cut, (i.e., invite all aunts and uncles, yet eliminate third generation cousins).

Make Your MUST Have  List.  This is your “A List” of who you MUST have at your wedding.  This may be your parents, siblings, grandparents, and wedding party.  The ones left on your list which did not make it to your “A List”, will be your “B List”.

Who Should be Easier to Cut?  When you start making cuts, your colleagues, out-of-touch friends, and distant relatives you haven’t seen or talked to in over one year should understand if you want to keep your wedding guest list to your closest family and friends.  Don’t feel obligated to invite neighbors or other brides which have recently invited you to their wedding.

Limit Your Plus Ones.  It is up to you if you will allow a friend to bring a date.  Common courtesy dictates if your friend lives with, or is in a serious relationship with someone, this “plus one” should be invited to the wedding.  If your friend has a different person each month, this doesn’t mean they should be invited.  Talk with your friend first before assuming, and this is an easy way to get the name of their guest.  If they can’t give you a name, probably a good candidate for “no plus one”!

Realistic Guest Counts, Holidays, and Special Events.  On an average, 15% to 20% of your invited guests will not be able to attend.  They may have prior commitments, may not be able to take time off from work, or have other obstacles.  Your wedding date selection is important.  Holiday weekends are when airlines are extremely busy, and airfares will be more expensive.  If you plan your wedding during a major sporting event like Super Bowl weekend, your guests may have a difficult time finding hotel rooms, especially if the Super Bowl is in the same city as your wedding.

Master Guest List.  Combine your personal guest list, your parents’ list, your fiance’s list, and your fiance’s parents’ list into one alphabetical master list.  Check out this free template google docs – Wedding Guest List Template.  Enter your data or download from your computer in a format which is easily sorted in a multitude of ways.  You will refer to this list repetitively to address invitations, check off RSVPs, keep track of RSVPs NOT received, for accurate guest counts, record gifts, mail thank-you notes, and much more.  Here are some categories to include when making your Master Guest List:

a).  Contact information.  Include each guest’s full name, address, city, state, zip, phone, and e-mail address.

b).  Communication Tracker.  Keep track of who you have sent the save-the-date, invitation, and thank-you cards to.

c).  RSVPs.  Use a check mark or a “X” when the guest has RSVPed, with how many family members will be attending.

d).  Record Gifts.  Write down gifts received.

e).  Out-of-Town Guests.  These guests will need information on guest rooms, and you may want to arrange for transportation to pick them from the airport, take them to the ceremony, and return them to their hotel at the conclusion of the reception.

f).  Multiple Events.  If they are invited to one event, by etiquette they must be invited to the wedding.  You may want to have various spreadsheets for multiple events such as your Engagement Party, Bridal Shower, Bachelor Party, Bachelorette Party, Rehearsal Dinner, Golf Outing, Spa Day, Ceremony /Reception, and Brunch the Day After.

g).  Dietary Restrictions.  Indicate if they are a vegetarian, gluten free, diabetic, and list dietary restrictions to share with your caterer.

h).  Children vs. Adult Count vs. Vendor Food Count.  Note the age range of children so when you give the final guest count to your caterer you know numbers for adults, children, and vendor meals.

i).  Guest Code by Relationship.   Make a code for each guest so you know who is issuing the invitation, is it the Bride (B), Parents of the Bride (POB), Groom (G), Parents of the Groom (POG), Sibling (SOB – sister of bride), Wedding Party (WP), Aunt (A), Uncle (U), etc.  This will help you with seating arrangements, and if RSVPs are missing, it will be easier at selecting who would be best to delegate to confirm their RSVP status.

j).  Table Numbers.  If you are having reserved seating to a table, it will be easier to group your guests before you alphabetize your list.

k).  Handicap Guests.  If you have anyone in a wheelchair, you may want to seat them closest to the exit door so they have easy entrance and exit options.

Copyright 2012, Kim Horn, MBC™

To hire Kim as your wedding planner, call 480.921.7891 or text your name, wedding date, and wedding planner request to 602.418.9089.

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Master Bridal Consultant | 1 of 61 in the World

Scottsdale, Paradise Valley, Chandler, Phoenix and Destination Weddings

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AZ State Coordinator | Assoc. of Bridal Consultants May 2003 – May 2012

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One frequently asked question is “where should I have my wedding reception, and how much will it cost?”  This is another reason to hire an expert wedding planner, to fast track you in matching your style, number of guests, and budget to the  venue.  By having worked events at hundreds of sites, as a wedding planner, it becomes easy to know the ins and outs of each property.

The Wright House, 636 W. University Dr., Mesa, AZ  85201, 480.833.0902, www.thewrighthouse.com  Choose between two unique venues:  A formal Victorian English garden with gazebos, flower bed, and vine covered verandah; or a Southern French garden with gorgeous fountains and the rustic charm of a Country French Inn. Includes setup, fresh floral centerpieces, linens, and decorating. Your own caterer welcome.

Ancala Country Club, 11700 E. Via Linda, Scottsdale, AZ  85259, 480.391.1000  A golden sunset, sneaking behind gentle mountains in the distance. A light breeze, filled with laughter, and love. Soft gentle kisses. This is a day you have been dreaming about. Your wedding at Ancala Country Club. Where possibilities are endless…and the day is truly yours.

Anthem Golf & Country Club, 11700 E. Via Linda, Scottsdale, AZ  85259, 480.391.1000  Amidst the sun-splashed mountains and the beauty of the Sonoran Desert, Anthem Golf & Country Club sets the breathtaking backdrop for your wedding.  Our two clubhouses, “Persimmon” and “Ironwood”, feature beautifully landscaped lawns, expansive patios, and indoor ballrooms among the many perfect settings for a truly memorable event.

Antique Wedding House, 307 E. First St., Mesa, AZ  85201, 480.649.1934  Historic 100 year old James A. MacDonald Home restored as Antique Wedding House and Gazebo Garden Reception site.

Arizona Grand Resort, 7777 S. Arizona Grand Pkwy., Phoenix, AZ  85044, 602.431.6457  From one of the most expansive ballrooms in the Southwest to our lush outdoor venues.  Arizona Grand Resort provides wide variety of versatile wedding sites and packages.  Each of our restaurants features a different theme and setting for a rehearsal dinner that’s just as memorable as the real thing.

Bentley Projects, 215 E. Grant St., Phoenix, AZ  85004, 602.340.9200  Bentley Projects is truly a distinctive event venue with exposed brick walls and wooden bow truss ceilings.  Critically acclaimed, Projects is located in the center of downtown Phoenix, just a few blocks south of Chase Field and the new Phoenix Convention Center.

Boojum Tree Hidden Gardens, 16026 N. 36th St., Phoenix, AZ  85032, 602.867.8975  A private five acre oasis in the heart of Phoenix featuring a forest of trees, fountains, ponds, tranquil river and a 20’ waterfall. Get married in our Hacienda Style Plaza, dine in our indoor Tropical Garden, socialize in our Old World Cantina and dance the night away in our beautiful Palm Garden.

Cave Creek Smokehouse’s Fountain Patio, 6245 E. Cave Creek Rd., Cave Creek, AZ  85331, 480.488.3317  Fantastic outside venue in the heart of Cave Creek with awesome food and views. Great anytime of the year with lodgings nearby.

Crowne Plaza Phoenix, 2532 W. Peoria Ave., Phoenix, AZ  85029, 602.943.2341  Newly renovated event space, indoor and outdoor. 3.5 million spent on renovation over the last year.

DoubleTree Resort by Hilton Paradise Valley-Scottsdale, 5401 N. Scottsdale Rd., Scottsdale, AZ  85250, 480.948.7750  Your perfect day in Paradise! Welcome to the ultimate setting for your ultimate day. Where tall palms tower over tropical gardens and whispering fountains, we offer the finest of touches and delectable culinary creations, along with a professional team that will bring it all together perfectly.

Downtown Phoenix Venues, P.O. Box 2236, Phoenix, AZ  85002, 602.416.1261  Each building has a unique structure and appearance incomparable to the other venues in the Valley. From the bow truss ceilings, as well as the modern and industrial look of monOrchid, or the raw feel of the Icehouse, not to mention the exposed brick walls and wooden bow truss ceilings of Bentley Projects.

Embassy Suites Phoenix Scottsdale Hotel, 4415 E. Paradise Village Pkwy. S., Phoenix, AZ  85032, 602.765.5807  Our breathtaking views and exceptional services will enhance the success of your special day! Our wedding packages may be customized to match your personal taste, style, and budget.

The Felch House Inn, 525 W. Lynwood St., Phoenix, AZ  85003, 480.229.2104  The Felch House Inn the 1927 Dutch Colonial Home of one of our first county doctors, Dr. Harry J. Felch. A showcase home designed by three architects and built by the finest craftsman is meticulously maintained. The lush half-acre English gardens make this the ideal location for vintage and garden events.

Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar, DC Ranch, 20753 N. Pima Rd., Scottsdale, AZ  85255, 480.538.8000  Celebrate your most memorable times at Fleming’s. This special time in your life calls for a special celebration—with exceptional food and wine, shared among family and friends. Fleming’s is renowned for contemporary steakhouse dining at its finest and offers pre-set lunch and dinner menus with choices for varying budgets and tastes.

Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar at the Hilton, 6333 N. Scottsdale Rd., Scottsdale, AZ  85250, 480.596.8265  Celebrate your most memorable times at Fleming’s. This special time in your life calls for a special celebration—with exceptional food and wine, shared among family and friends. Fleming’s is renowned for contemporary steakhouse dining at its finest and offers pre-set lunch and dinner menus with choices for varying budgets and tastes.

Glendale Civic Center, 5750 W. Glenn Dr., Glendale, AZ  85301, 623.878.2866  Our experienced wedding coordinators are delighted to help you design a wedding in one of our gardens and/or exquisite ballrooms that reflects your colors, tastes, and style. Our caterer is knowledgeable in many cuisines and will prepare a menu of flavors your guests will never forget, all within your budget.

The Icehouse, 429 W. Jackson, Phoenix, AZ  85004, 602.416.1261  The Icehouse, known historically as Constable Ice Storage, is located in the historic original town site of the city of Phoenix, Arizona. It began operations in 1910 as an icehouse, manufacturing 300 lb. ice blocks for use in the food industry, primarily to keep produce cold as it was shipped by railroad to Eastern U.S. cities.

McCormick Ranch Golf Club, 7505 E. McCormick Pkwy., Scottsdale, AZ  85258, 480.948.7011  Multiple venues with beautiful views of our sparkling lakes, luscious golf courses, and Camelback Mountain.

Mesa Country Club, 660 W. Fairway Dr., Mesa, AZ  85201, 480.964.1797  Mesa Country Club is an ideal wedding ceremony and reception venue for anyone. Perfectly suited to accommodate magnificent large celebrations as well as unforgettable intimate events. We can provide a variety of stunning indoor and outdoor spaces to create the wedding of your dreams.

monOrchid, 214 E. Roosevelt, Phoenix, AZ  85003, 602.416.1261  Located in the heart of downtown Phoenix’s art district, the monOrchid can be the perfect setting for your private event. This modern industrial chic gallery can accommodate events ranging from large receptions to intimate sit-down dinners for weddings and receptions, and for photo and film shoots.

Moon Valley Country Club, 151 W. Moon Valley Dr., Phoenix, AZ  85023, 602.375.4425  Nestled beneath the serene, sun-drenched hills of North Phoenix, lies a lush, green oasis in the desert called Moon Valley Country Club. This classic 160-acre property is laden with mature trees and foliage which rise above the colorful flowers that riddle the landscape. Our retro-chic look will be the perfect setting for your wedding.

An Old Town Wedding and Event Center, 8276 W. Monroe St., Peoria, AZ  85345, 623.412.7797  A 1948 red brick home with over one half acre gardens, fountains, mature trees, seasonal flowers, and twinkle lights galore. Ceremony takes place in the raised lit gazebo, and the reception is in the gardens. Enjoy the evening while dancing under the stars.

Pebble Creek Country Club, 16222 Clubhouse Dr., Goodyear, AZ  85395, 623.935.6726  Affordable luxury Pebble Creek Country Club is the hidden jewel of the West Valley.

The Phoenix Country Club, 2901 N. 7th St., Phoenix, AZ  85014, 602.263.5208  Warm, soft elegance, 60% window view, 4300 sq. ft. ballroom looking out on 130 acres in downtown Phoenix, recent modernization to the club with beautiful wood and soft earth tones. Private Country Club with a dedicated team to make special memories for your wedding day or rehearsal dinner.

The Ritz-Carlton, Phoenix, 2401 E. Camelback Rd., Phoenix, AZ  85016, 602.468.0700  The Ritz-Carlton, Phoenix is a luxury hotel with urban chic surroundings, making it one of the city’s most desired wedding venues. From a Terrace draped with white twinkle lights to an elegant Ballroom, the Hotel offers seamless comprehensive wedding services for intimate and grand celebrations.

Scottsdale Resort & Athletic Club, 8225 E. Indian Bend Rd., Scottsdale, AZ  85250, 480.344.0600  An intimate, personal, and private boutique of Scottsdale, Arizona, the Scottsdale Resort & Athletic Club offers breathtaking views and unmatched recreational amenities.

Seville Golf & Country Club, 6683 S. Clubhouse Dr., Gilbert, AZ  85298, 480.279.3012  Seville has many different options for you to choose from to hold your wedding. From open grass acres, the lagoon or waterfall to any number of golf course locations. We have the perfect spot for you!

Spinato’s Pizzeria, 4848 E. Chandler Blvd., Phoenix, AZ  85048, 480.961.0208  www.spinatospizza.com  Spinato’s family pizzeria, has a private dining room to host your rehearsal dinner and reception. Extensive menu choices and service styles allow you to order off the menu to work within your budget. Spinato’s friendly staff and variety of tasty food will have your wedding remembered forever!

Superstition Springs Golf Club, 6542 E. Baseline Rd., Mesa, AZ  85206, 480.654.5652  When you want the location of your event to be as special as the occasion, we have what it takes. Distinguished by its Southern plantation style clubhouse, Superstition breathes an air of luxury.

Tatum Ranch Golf Club, 29888 N. Tatum Ranch Dr., Cave Creek, AZ  85331, 480.585.2399  Tatum Ranch Golf Club is a premier wedding venue that offers elegance at an affordable price. With a breathtaking mountain backdrop, our outdoor ceremony site is the perfect setting for your wedding ceremony! Tatum Ranch Golf Club features fine food, professional staff, and a wedding day that will be truly magical.

Trilogy at Vistancia, 27980 N. Trilogy Blvd. E., #102, Peoria, AZ  85383, 623.215.6260  Our Ceremony Promenade is the perfect backdrop to exchange vows with dramatic views of the Bradshaw Mountains. Equipped with a 2,200 square foot dance floor, Infinity doors and state-of-the-art video equipment, the Tewa Ballroom is the perfect place for a celebration of your new life together.

Venue at the Grove, 7010 S. 27th Ave., Phoenix, AZ  85041, 602.456.0803  If you are looking for a unique garden setting for your ceremony/reception in the Arizona desert that is only 15 minutes away from downtown Phoenix, look no further. Venue at the Grove is located on a two and a half acre pecan grove that truly provides a unique experience.

Villa Siena, 890 W. Elliot Rd., Gilbert, AZ  85233, 480.782.7218  Exquisite Tuscan elegance, Villa Siena invites you, with up to 250 guests, to celebrate live, love and laughter on the day of your wedding. Six thousand square feet of indoor space as well as 6,500 square feet of beautiful outdoor gardens add to the grace of Villa Siena.

The Wrigley Mansion, 2501 E. Telawa Tr., Phoenix, AZ  85016, 602.553.7395  Historical landmark, once private residence of William Wrigley Jr. – chewing gum magnate – Stunning Valley Views!

Zulu Club, 15000 N. Airport Dr., Scottsdale, AZ  85260, 480.282.0464  Enjoy the spectacular views of the McDowell Mountains and corporate jets on our property – in the heart of Scottsdale, complete privacy and uniquely different.

Copyright 2012, Kim Horn, MBC™

To hire Kim as your wedding planner, call 480.921.7891 or text your name, wedding date, and wedding planner request to 602.418.9089.

Kim M. Horn, MBC™

Master Bridal Consultant | 1 of 61 in the World

Scottsdale, Paradise Valley, Chandler, Phoenix and Destination Weddings

Publisher | Pres. | ArizonaBridalSource.com

AZ State Coordinator | Assoc. of Bridal Consultants May 2003 – April 2012

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March 8, 2012

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Wedding Rehearsal Dinner at TheWrightHouse.com in Mesa, Arizona

Wedding Rehearsal Dinner at TheWrightHouse.com in Mesa, Arizona

The rehearsal dinner has become almost as festive as the wedding itself.  It’s a time to celebrate your upcoming wedding in a relaxed atmosphere. 

Who should you invite?  Your guest list for your rehearsal dinner should include members of your wedding party, the officiant, parents, and grandparents of the bride and groom, and siblings of the bride and groom who are not in the wedding party.  If you have stepparents, they are invited with their spouses, yet should not be seated next to their former spouses.  The wedding party’s husbands, wives, fiancés, fiancées, and live-in companions should be invited, yet dates are not normally included.  Any children of the bride and groom from a previous marriage should attend, unless they are too young.  The flower girl, ring bearer, junior bridesmaid, and junior groomsman may be included, unless the hour or the formality makes it difficult for them to attend.  Would recommend inviting their parents (if they aren’t in the wedding party) so you have supervision.

What about my out-of-town guests?  Before adding all of your out-of-town guests, sit down and review your budget for the event with your fiancé.  If your budget would be able to accommodate them, then it would be a nice gesture.  Remember when you include one out-of-town guest, you should include most of them.  If this doesn’t work for your budget, you may want to arrange an informal meeting for them at their hotel, or a nearby restaurant to meet them at another time so they feel welcomed.

Copyright 2012, Kim Horn, MBC™

To hire Kim as your wedding planner, call 480.921.7891 or text your name, wedding date, and wedding planner request to 602.418.9089.

Kim M. Horn, MBC™

Master Bridal Consultant | 1 of 61 in the World

Scottsdale, Paradise Valley, Chandler, Phoenix and Destination Weddings

Publisher | Pres. | ArizonaBridalSource.com

AZ State Coordinator | Assoc. of Bridal Consultants May 2003 – May 2012

ABC 2010 Conference Chair worked with David Tutera

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February 13, 2012

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Bridesmaids, Junior Bridesmaids, and Flower Girls Responsibilities

Bridesmaids, Junior Bridesmaids, and Flower Girls Responsibilities

You are engaged, getting married, and now are getting ready to ask your BFFs to be a part of your wedding.

Who do you ask, and what are their responsibilities?  Your bridesmaids, junior bridesmaids, and flower girls will be a large part of your wedding day.  They will be involved in your journey from being single to walking down the aisle on multiple levels.  

Select your wedding gown first for the style, vision, and formality of your wedding.  Remember your bridesmaids, junior bridesmaids, and flower girls will be your palette of color in many of your photos.  When you choose your color palettes go to ColourLovers.com – LOVE THEM, and work with colors which you look amazing in.  When choosing bridesmaid dresses remember to keep the wedding gown in mind.  You may come up with a common design which may be a combination of the fabric, sheen, bodice, train, neckline, shoulder treatment,  etc.

Weddings are stressful with emotions running high.  There are many important factors to consider before asking your BFFs to be in your wedding party.  The most important thing to consider is they are there to SUPPORT YOU!

It is your CHOICE to ask these people to be involved in your wedding day, and it should be an honor for them.  Not everyone may see things the way you do.

The day of your wedding IS all about you.  When you choose your wedding party, here are some things to consider BEFORE asking them to be in your wedding party:

1).  Your BFF which has always been “all about herself”, will probably still be all about herself.

2).  Your BFF which has always been there for you, in good times and bad, will be a source of strength for you.

3).  Your BFF which complains about being bloated when she is a size zero, will probably still be bloated.

4).  Your BFF which complains and talks about being too busy, may be too busy to help you.

5).  Your BFF which you haven’t seen since college, you probably won’t see or hear from until your wedding day.

6).  Your fiance’s sister who has been supportive of you becoming a new member of the family, will probably still be supportive.

7).  Your fiance’s sister who is BFF with his ex-girlfriend, will still probably be BFF with the ex.

Bridesmaid’s Responsibilities:

  • Pay for their dress and show up for their fittings.
  • Wear the correct attire.
  • Attend the wedding rehearsal.
  • Be supportive and follow the bride’s wishes.
  • Purchase a wedding gift for the bride and groom.
  • Arrive and be dressed for photos per the timeline for the wedding day.
  • Walk down the aisle with or without the groomsman per the bride’s request.
  • Look after the bride attentively on the day of the wedding.
  • Be available to pose for photos throughout the day.
  • Help plan the bachelorette party based on the bride’s taste.

Junior Bridesmaid Responsibilities:

The junior bridemaid is normally between the ages of nine to fourteen.  She is “too old” to be a flower girl, and “not old enough” to wear a bridesmaid dress.  Some manufacturers have junior bridesmaid dress sizes which are the same fabric and style of the bridesmaids, others may not.  You will want to have her purchase a junior bridesmaid dress which you approve which is in the same style and color as your bridesmaids.  Her parents would be responsible for purchasing her dress, shoes, and accessories.  The florals for the junior bridesmaid may be a scaled down version of the bridesmaids’ bouquet.

Flower Girl Responsibilities:

The flower girl is normally between the ages of three to eight.  Her parents will be responsible for purchasing her dress, shoes, and accessories.  If the flower girl needs a nap, it is best to try to keep her on schedule.  Ask your photographer if they could add the flower girl in the photography timeline when they are rested!   The flower girl traditionally follows the ring bearer (if you are having one).  If you have more than one flower girl, it works well to have them “buddy up” so they support each other.  Depending on the length of your ceremony, you may want the flower girls to be seated with their parents or grandparents.  It helps to have their parents on the center aisle to encourage them to walk to a familiar face.  Remember you may want to ask your makeup artist and hairstylist to make your flower girls feel extra special by touching them up before they walk down the aisle.  Keep in mind when you have children in the ceremony you have minimal control over the outcome.  The flower girl may run down the aisle, lift her dress, cry, or refuse to walk.  Remember, children in a wedding are adorable.  The flower girls are little, and the more supportive you and the bridesmaids are, the more they will feel included and want to impress the “big girls”.

Money Obligations:

If the bridesmaid or parents of the junior bridesmaid or flower girl are on a budget already, traditionally they pay for their own dress, shoes, and accessories.  Sometimes you may offer to pay for part or all of the gown and/or accessories, knowing the chance of them wear it again is minimal.  Remember the movie 27 dresses! 

Conflicting Personalities:

If the people you are considering to be in your wedding party get along well, great!  If they don’t, think again.  With stress and emotions running high, they will be at a higher level as the wedding day approaches.  Cat fights on your wedding day between your BFFs will not make it an enjoyable day, and your photos will show the stress in your faces.

“Real life” Happens:

Think about the situations which are “real life” to your BFFs.  Maybe one is pregnant, and expecting her first child close to your wedding date.  Maybe one just had a baby, and they need to bring the baby to your wedding.  Maybe one was just laid off from her job and has financial situations.  Maybe one no matter what happens has drama 24/7.  Try to surround yourself with people who are supportive of you and your fiance’s marriage.

Supportive:

By taking the time to hand pick your wedding party based on these specifications, this will help you choose a responsible and supportive group of bridesmaids, junior bridesmaids, and flower girls. 

Copyright 2012, Kim Horn, MBC™

To hire Kim as your wedding planner, call 480.921.7891 or text your name, wedding date, and wedding planner request to 602.418.9089.

Kim M. Horn, MBC™

Master Bridal Consultant | 1 of 59 in the World

Scottsdale, Paradise Valley, Chandler, Phoenix and Destination Weddings

Publisher | Pres. | ArizonaBridalSource.com

AZ State Coordinator | Assoc. of Bridal Consultants May 2003 – May 2012

ABC 2010 Conference Chair worked with David Tutera

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